TOVA was founded in 1997 to provide mentors to Jewish teens in Far
Rockaway/Five Towns communities. Starting with 2 mentors and 2 teens,
the program has grown quickly. We now service all the local Jewish
schools and work with children from first grade through high school.
There are many reasons that children and teens need mentors: loneliness,
family loss, divorce, very large families, changing schools, or just
not having a big brother or sister. There are many children who need
a little extra support during difficult periods of growing up. TOVA
is there for them.
TOVA stands for Torah Viable Alternatives, and is the brainchild
of the noted psychologist, Dr Norman Blumenthal and the Dean of Secular
Studies at Yeshiva Darchei Torah, Mr. Richard Altabe. Together, they
worked with Fran and Allen Ganz and Neil Rosen, and envisioned a program
that utilized the talents of young adults to help teenagers, and the
results have been wildly successful. At the start of this school years,
the program is already servicing close to 70 students that range in
age from six to sixteen. The program anticipates serving over 100
children this upcoming year.
Statistics
prove that mentoring works. The results of an independent
study of children matched with a big brother or big sister show that
52% are less likely to skip a day of school; 37% are less likely to
skip a class; 46% are less likely to start using drugs; and 27% are
less likely to start drinking. After one year of having a mentor,
problematic behaviors decrease, and in the second year of the partnerships,
real growth is usually evident in the children. TOVA mentors usually
meet with their students twice weekly, during school hours. The time
is spent however the student chooses-playing basketball or getting
a manicure. “A mentor’s job is
to be a friend and guide,” Director Andrea
Borah explains.
"Our mentors are often a lifeline that keeps a kid connected,”
Richard Altabe, Executive Vice President, explains. “For whatever
reasons, if a child feels alienated from parents, family, school and
the community, a mentor can make all the difference, that child no
longer feels alone.”
“The community also plays a part in making the TOVA program
so successful, “he continues. “Some community members
have donated tickets to ball games. It is impossible to measure what
that level of community caring means to a kid who feels alienated
from life. It is a powerful form of support for a child in the TOVA
program to know that an anonymous member of the community cares enough
to donate tickets to a game.”
TOVA has become so successful that a new branch has opened in Kew
Gardens, Queens. This is the next step for students who are aging
out of the elementary after school homework help program called “Bridges”.
Anyone 21 years or older who is interested in becoming a mentor can
call the TOVA office at 516-295-0550.